Add dbx library: PostgreSQL cluster with master/replica routing, retry, health checking

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

go.mod

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+module git.codelab.vc/pkg/dbx
+
+go 1.25.7
+
+require github.com/jackc/pgx/v5 v5.9.1
+
+require (
+	github.com/jackc/pgpassfile v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/jackc/pgservicefile v0.0.0-20240606120523-5a60cdf6a761 // indirect
+	github.com/jackc/puddle/v2 v2.2.2 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/sync v0.17.0 // indirect
+	golang.org/x/text v0.29.0 // indirect
+)